unwilling or unable

I wanted Marie to come home. As long as the infection is cleared up, there is no medical reason to keep her in the hospital. At this point though, I still didn't know if the infection was cured. The social worker wanted me to make a decision quickly. I didn't like that the social worker approached me and wanted to move Marie so quickly. I felt that she should have come to me with enough time so that I could understand the process, and what insurance coverage Marie was entitled to. I needed help and the social worker was to give me that help.