This was a case that the cure turned out to be as bad as the disease. All the radiation created a condition where the skull and scalp were not healing from the latest surgery. It had been a month since that surgery and a plastic surgeon was needed to repair a hole. None of the medicals believed that a leak was occurring. That allowed a staff infection to enter my wife's spinal fluid which almost killed her. I had to make a resuscitation "call" and then a week or two later my daughter witnessed her mother going through a code blue. To cap it all, a nurse at the code blue, verbalized her excitement for code blues, because that's when the fun starts.
I can tell you that my daughter didn't have any "fun" at the code blue and I know that I didn't have any "fun" watching my wife suffer. I was disappointed with the doctors and the hospital nursing staff on the neurological floor. There was a lack of professionalism and decorum. They should be embarrassed by their actions and ashamed of their treatment to my wife as a patient, and our family as caregivers.
I just LOVE how they don't listen to the patient (or in this case, the patient's husband!) -- They think we don't know what we are talking about!! It's our bodies!! (And in your case....her body....but you were so involved with her every facet!!) It's so wrong how the medicals just don't really listen!!!
ReplyDelete~Michelle